How many people say I love you. It seems to roll off the tongue so easily. They say that they are suppose to be the most precious 3 words anyone can say to another person. I think these days it is just another phrase. Just another empty sentence to go with all the rest. People should stop and think what type of impact those three little words can have on someone. I feel that you should never even open your mouth to word them unles they are actually coming from the heart. How many young women have lost their virginity to those 3 words? How many people have stood in front of a pastor, preacher, ect and swore those words to each other in front of family, friends, and God. Then 5 years later realize it wasn’t love that caused them to join together in the first place. How many babies have been born because some poor girl believed those 3 words and gave herself over to the person that spoke them? How many people have given up their lives, dreams, and goal to be with the person that said I love you?
These 3 words are suppose to be beautiful but no one seems to see the ugly side of those words. If someone says I love you, don’t just swoon over and believe it. Listen with your heart and make sure your heart not only heard those words but heard them also. If you don’t feel their love in your heart or you feel any moment of doubt then don’t just fall for the words. If they run at the first sign of trouble they dont love you. If they disappear when you need them the most, they dont love you. If they leave you knowing you depend on them for your life sake, they dont love you. If they cause you pain in any sort of way, they dont love you. If they are selfish, or hurtful with their words, or conditional with their love, then they dont love you. An last but most importantly, if they hit you, punch you, kick you, choke you, then they damn sure dont love you. Love doesnt hurt.
If a person really loves you they won’t even have to say it. You will see it in their actions and in their eyes. Their body language, they way they hold your hand. In the way they hold you and shield you from the world when you are depressed and feel that everyone and everything is against you. In the way they tell you every think will be alright and you believe it no matter the situation. They will be there for you before you even have to ask. You will have any doubt about their love for you. You will both feel butterflys when you see each other. The sound of your voices will sound like angels in each others ears. You will not be able to breathe without each others love.
Love is beautiful, love is kind, love is peaceful, love is joy, love is strong, love is sweet, love will be there when everyone and everything else is gone. Love will endure forever no matter what. Love will accept you just as you are. If you hear those 3 words and you don’t feel any of those things, then it is not love it is just 3 words with no meaning.
So well written! I could not have done better. So many of us have taken those three words for granted. My ex used those words without meaning for the longest time. When I finally could not use them without any true feeling. He was furious to say the least. I for one can not use the word love unless I truly mean it.
Cheers!
GIRL you are way too awesome! What I just say about that flys and honey haha. You know I just spoke about this recently
Although, I am a runner. I can love you and would die for you but if I felt we conflicted and I just couldnt deal with the drama, I would walk away. Although I would still love you from afar. I have found that you cant always be in the presence of those you love, if that makes sense
Love also surely does hurt. Not physically but it is the most painful thing I have experienced in life. Before I even allow myself to love a new person in my life, even a niece or nephew, I already brace myself for the day we will clash, words will fly and thigns will be said. That is just life. It doesnt mean we dont love each other but it happens. As you know, no one can hurt you like a child, a spouse or a parent. I think us the same.
When hubby comes home from work and leaves each day, we kiss and say I LOVE YOU. When my kids go to school, get home and go to bed we say I LOVE YOU. It does seem to be a bit…scripted after awhile but I know it to be true. Even though right now my 17 year old is going through teenageassholeism and some days I wish he would just not come home, I LOVE HIM! I dont like hiim too much the last few years but I love him more then the day I gave birth to him
I cant believe you have me in tears and making me late for the doctor! This is why people should share themselves. Learn one, do one, teach one. You are awesome and although I know you might not believe nor understand this but it is very true
I LOVE YOU
I don’t know If I said it already but …Hey good stuff…keep up the good work!
I read a lot of blogs on a daily basis and for the most part, people lack substance but, I just wanted to make a quick comment to say I’m glad I found your blog. Thanks,)
A definite great read….